Lisa Nichols' Life Advice Will Leave You Speechless One of the most eye opening Speech you Read ever
I was hungry like i was hungry people often like to call me
the exception like oh my god you are the exception no i am not the exception i
am an average normal woman who chooses to make another extraordinary decision
every day i am an average normal mom , who said that I wanted to completely
change my son's future, to which he deserved every choice, no matter what child
he was born into, I was just crazy to believe that it didn't matter It doesn't
matter my skin color doesn't matter my religious background it doesn't matter
my origin it doesn't matter my mom's bank account my dad when I was born
doesn't matter my future That's all It's not what defines my future, I just
used to believe that a lot doesn't validate it, but faith is believing in the
unseen anyway, so I was confident enough to let me know like i know like i know
like i know i don't need to see it yet Sometimes there is so much value in what
you don't learn. The best thing you can do is to learn a few things. We all are
always going after learning something new because we are crazy about
information because we have access to the internet. All kinds of information
that comes to us comes in the books that come to us. On the radio coming to us
in television that we want to learn to learn but sometimes your biggest success
is what you unlearn and then you sometimes disrupt your soil pull up your soil
that dry Take the dirt that's been planted over the years. Know I've known it
for years, That's what my mom taught me to have to disrupt that soil yes yes you
guys got that and so i came very comfortable to disrupt your soil like i came
to disrupt your soil not necessarily what you know be comfortable in that, be
comfortable in that i want to interrupt you on a few things that are new
awareness to go oh wait hold on or one based on what you've known forever New
awareness, which is no longer suited to your future because I can guarantee you
that each and every one of us wants to do something different than what we are
getting. We are living unconsciously from an old pattern that doesn't even
serve our future, when the tongue in your mouth and the tongue in your shoe are
going in two completely different directions and your job is to align them so
that you are powerful.
Ways to Move on Myth number two is that abundance is focused
only on possessions and money, that's what drives everything you live how much
money you make when in reality this couldn't be further from the truth. Wealth
is wealth and wealth is abundance A 360 Experience True Abundance is Your Health
Because Life Doesn't Feel Good If You Don't Have Great Health Abundance is the
relation and at the end of your life you will really measure your quality of
life by the quality of life you have There were all other things that will take
away from the promotion you've been thinking about that you're thinking about.
How do your children relate to you How do your siblings relate to you? Man you
really start to see relationships on a higher level as you get older so you
care about them when you own them and I know for a fact I have a friend who is
worth $14 billion He was partying at my house all night, he didn't go home at
four in the morning and he flew to Canada to go to my freshman year. party
because he loves my family connection and he doesn't have one is about your
spiritual base it doesn't mean you have a religious origin about can you
release can you forgive can you let go can you still meditate do you have your
own time together that has a lot to do with the quality of your life let me
tell you something different you have to do something different to do something
else you have to do something you haven't done yet let me say those things what
i didn't want to say what i didn't like to live life i know i wanted period and
all i did was give instructions for here what is this bite size what this bite
size bite size digestible pieces of what you can do and when you see and you
don't have to make a spectacular change in 12 months, one in 30 days There is
small change and then in 30 days small change will come in the trick of your
success needle and you look upwards in five years and your life does not
recognize every single thing you touch as an artist Let it be influenced by
your story As an architect as a teacher there is not a line of business in
which you can have a story and a great story will not increase your results
every single line of business every single one The row you are connected to
will be impressed and ideally raised above the level in which you are willing
to tell and share your story, so let me give you some guidelines on what I like
to call bumper rails as you going to bowl you know when i bowl i ask them to
put a little bumper rail down so i can stay my ball can go down the lane so let
me set up some bumper rails for you so you understand know what a great story
is, so most people's vision is the willingness to take risks when They're
telling a story they don't want to take the risk so the story has its limits on
how high it will go or how deep it will be and when you have that you're not really
the part that touches my soul so be prepared to take the risk of being clear
and concise your stories are a great story a show me story not a tell me story
now that's the difference that's a game changer for most people what they tell
a story So let me just share a little bit of my story with you and I'll tell
you and then I'll show you that when I was building my life there was a time in
my life that was very hard. it was challenging true story very difficult very
challenging very uncomfortable i didn't have a lot of money i didn't have much
hope and things just seemed hopeless at some point i had to change my life at
some point i decided life had to get better i Telling you it's good that you
know about me if I show you that story I will say that six days a week I had to
eat bean and weenie, I had to find money in the corners and corners of my couch
to get my sun milk, there were times when my heart was on what I'm going to do
tomorrow. At some point I got sick and my own.
Tired of story is this going to be my future no i can't
handle it to notice the difference in it wow i totally see i just painted a
picture same story now another when you show the story so it will require more
of you explore and now it is wherever it is whatever you are doing I promise
you will be a great storyteller and you will captivate your audience no matter
what you do I have fascinated the students I have fascinated the teachers
because I was ready to show the story I call it opening the vision of the story
I am ready to tell what you were thinking what you were feeling What Were
Watching Think of a story as an oral film and so think of it as an oral film
when you watch a movie. So first of all they identify what is the state of the
times, is this the future is it now when you look at what people are wearing
based on how they are talking to me That picture gives me that environment set
the background for me show me what you're doing instead of saying I was angry
you can tell me you were angry but when you say the back of my neck hair stood
up so I felt smoke coming out of my nose I felt my chest burst and I'm going to
say something I'll be forever sorry you showed me you were angry to unpack it
Take the extra time to, why most people wouldn't because it requires a level of
vulnerability that we are unwilling to share when we talk about living our
pursuit. think living my quest really if all i see on a daily basis it's
finding my own voice it's finding your voice it's looking for the song whether
only you can sing off-key it's finding your rhythm Have been searching what it
feels like to walk in it Your shoes today won't look like it took ten years
Live your search what can I do with my life so that my life becomes contagious
to someone else my living the search it's like how can i make my fingerprint so
big it lasts beyond the day of my transition my quest is how to give myself a
thousand seconds my quest is not some vaguely untouchable experience my quest
to live means to go back and heal the little girl in me so that the woman can
be free has been and is embracing the little boy in you so that the man can
show and allow himself to cry when necessary. Your pursuit is not something you
can't touch. It's not something that requires a stage or lights or the cameras
in your quest to be completely satisfied with who you are in the dark of night,
so who are you in the middle of the day, well, your The search is not holding
yourself hostage to old decisions Not holding yourself hostage to shame Blaming
the guilt Regret and anger is about living your search, about recognizing that
every day I am a possibility I can take rebirth.
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