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Let failure be your friend, there will definitely be times when you are going to win a lot, a lot of things are going your way and it is wonderful to capitalize on that praise and be proud of your successes, but there are It is also gratifying at times that those moments bring nothing, compared to the victories that will feed you for years to come and help you bet a minute when your tank is sometimes empty. happens winning is great i love it i like to be number one i love to win but it is the time when things go wrong when you fall down or fail that you really like the most about yourself Going to know you know all those years on the Oprah show 25 Years We were the number one show for 25 years and that's because I lived with the intention of serving the audience, the audience came first on every show, I Sitting with the makers and used to say that I can't do this because I am not getting my own truth in that show, I am able to do the thread of truth. Hold on to be sorry I knew the audience so well that I thought I was the audience, the audience was me and I felt very connected and then I ended that and started a new network and I was a little bit late. and i was really upset with myself but i will tell you that when i was able to shift the paradigm to start looking at wow what i have instead of what i do n't have what i thought i had I was lost, I was able to turn things around but these are moments of uncertainty, these are moments where you know to learn from those moments where things weren't going great enough to be able to connect with , which i know is god power that is greater than me and come back and feel that you move forward taking the next right step to move on talk about living our quest i guess if i see really my search is living t on daily basis it is finding my own voice it is finding your voice it is looking for the song that only l can't sing or not it's finding your rhythm searching what it feels like to walk in your shoes today it won't feel like living your pursuit 10 years ago what can i do with my life so that my life becomes contagious to someone else living my quest it seems how can I make my fingerprint so big that it lasts beyond the day of my infection How can I forgive so that I can love to the fullest Beloved Your search is how I can give myself a thousand seconds my search is not some vague untouchable experience My search means to live back and in me fixing the little girl so that the woman can be free it's going back and embracing the little boy in you so the man can show up and allow himself to cry when needed, your pursuit is not something you don't touch It's not something that requires a stage or lights or cameras, it 's about living your quest to be completely satisfied that you're at night. Who are you with in the dark, so who are you in the middle of the day, your quest not to hold yourself hostage to old decisions Not to hold yourself hostage to shame Blaming guilt Regret and anger About living your search It's about recognizing that every day I can be reincarnated to my potential. well I guess you know I was a very lucky kid, I was inspired by invention and self-reliance from a lot of different people and you know watching the apollo program even as a little boy and I think that when little kids are inspired you will never know what can happen this is a big deal and everything about our society gets better with time i really believe i am an optimist you know are that the myth of the good old days is usually just a myth we have better attention everything we have before you know it's invention, it's people discovering antibiotics let's people new find types of biomedicine biotechnology it's things that have been explored with the type of communication that we have freedom of speech now we have a lot of things with the internet that are getting better and a lot of them inventions Which keeps you incredibly grounded amidst all your stupendous success.

 

 I think success makes you more who you were than before I feel like money and success does just that so it's like it holds a magnifying glass who you are ask me and I'm like I don't know who else I mean who I am so money success and um so I want to say if you were a jerk before you were really successful and so All the money you would become a really big jerk and if you were insecure you would be more insecure If you were nice you got better If you were generous you would be more generous it's really just a magnifying glass if you become 65 or 70 and later and the people you want to love you really love you you are a success i have never seen anyone who reaches that age i mean i am someone like that not talking about who is extreme poverty or pain or anything else but i've never seen anyone that if they have a lot of people who love who are more than happy and i have seen some very rich people that they also give testimonials interest and name schools and no one loves them you know the best ever Good investment you can make in yourself for example communication skills I tell students they are going to graduate schools and business and they are learning all these complicated formulas and all that if they just write and both in person learn to communicate better they increase their value by at least 50 percent You know basically and you should be able to get both your ideas and uhh it's relatively easy I did it myself with Dale Carnegie of course some people want me to do a short course in my context now I'll talk later but it's very important and if you invest in yourself no one can't even take it away from you want to associate with who are better than you, i mean basically you will go in the direction of the people you associate with and you want the right hero you want people if you want to emulate someone you very carefully choose who you want to emulate and obviously you can't choose your parents they are going to have a great influence on you but you don't get a choice over that but you get choices because you go down the line and in terms of who you admire, who you want to copy and in terms of that decision most important for most people is their spouse, it is also important in terms of partner in business partner most important in life whom you want to choose a life partner who is a little better than you and then he or she expects more That's you hope they don't understand it too fast, I tell my girls it's time to find out what your real job is and your gifts to work on the alignment of your personality. to give you with a real reason why you are here, that 's the number one thing you have to work on yourself and fill yourself up and fill your cup now fill yourself up I was afraid that I was especially intimidated by people who say oh he said he 's full of hasan um and now I embrace it . I consider it a compliment that I'm full of myself because you're only full when you're full I 'm overflowing My cup run is over I have a lot and I have so much to give and I 'm not afraid to respect myself you know it's miraculous when you think about it